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    Keels89 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Keels89 Oct 29th, 2012 at 8:40PM

    Sorry to tell you but you will never forget your first love. The love will fade and you and he will change but you won't forget the "firsts". But just know that if it didn't work out it wasnt ment to be. And just think of it as all the relationships in between your firsts and last are just stepping stones and learning opportunities. Good luck your probably gonna fall in and out of love a few more times so enjoy the ride. And good luck <3

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  1. BILLYMADISONJ - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by BILLYMADISONJ Oct 29th, 2012 at 8:18PM

    time will heal you hun

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  2. newdjgl9 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by newdjgl9 Apr 28th, 2013 at 9:19PM

    never...aint life grand? mine still makes me cry jgl

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  3. alwaysnforevertk - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by alwaysnforevertk Feb 4th, 2013 at 12:31AM

    Honestly I have forgotten my first love because he wasnt the "one" Time really does heal but you have to be the one to let it go before it heals. I have a reason to forget my first love but I understand what your asking. It's a terrible feeling for awhile. Try to associate yourself around another guy. Maybe a couple dates, your not ready for a new boyfriend quite yet but get accustomed to being around another male and your heart will change pretty quickly! Good luck hun! and Im here to talk!

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  4. jenvice - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by jenvice Oct 29th, 2012 at 8:59PM

    The ridiculous yearning pain started to fade after about two years and then incrementally for another maybe decade...But the good memories began to be comforting after about one or two years. So eventually it balanced out. I have never stopped missing him but it just seems like a part of life after awhile...When I really needed him - existentially ...he came back to be with me for a short time.. and once in a while he calls and then I know he is okay. Generally, when I think of him I am just thankful for all the things he taught me and all that we shared. First love .. Overall it a blessing.

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  5. TheOneyouwerewarnedabout - 70+ years old

    Posted by TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Oct 29th, 2012 at 8:18PM

    im sure a pretty blonde thang like you won't have trouble finding a replacement

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  6. Wigglebottom - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Wigglebottom Oct 29th, 2012 at 8:18PM

    The pain goes away in about 2 new boyfriends and the memories last a life time.

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