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When I am with girls from out of town they find me attractive but at school here nobody even flirts with me.?

Its gotten to the point that I don't even talk to girls at my school unless it has to do with an assignment or something that really interests me. I don't understand why I turn into the quiet guy that doesn't do much socially except with his friends here but when i am out of town I act different and people are all over me. I just don't know how to break out of my shell here. I have known most everyone in my school for a long time.Any help would be appreciated. J
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Well i am a girl, and first hand i can say that girls like new and exciting. Most of the girls at your school have probably known you for a long time already. Dont take it too hard, girls are complicated, but at least your getting girls to be attracted to you. Thats always good, where ever you may be.
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Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 3:06AM
don't take it too hard.. girls are just full of drama!!! don't try to figure them out in high school!!!
you obviously are attractive to girls cuz you have them around you... so enjoy those girls and don't worry about it.
If you have known these girls in your school forever, they probably just look at you like their brother... my girls went to school for ten years (preK to 8th) with the same boys and they never gave them a look cuz they spent so much time with them for so many years. They are in High School, and have been away from these boys for a few years, they see them now and think differently about them! They think they are hot and they become interested!
so hang in there ... you will meet girls who flirt with you and are all over you... give it time!
:)
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Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 5:02AM
Becasue you are new and something different, everyone at your school is used to you...
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Posted Jul 19th, 2009 at 2:38AM
You're lucky, I can't even pry the girls at my school off me! Okay just kidding...I'm the same way dude, girls at my school aren't into me at all (thank goodness) so I just sort of ignore them. Actually I ignore everyone at my school but w/e...don't try and work it out or figure it out or test it...it's just how it is. It might also (like lots of ppl said before) be the fact that the girls at your school know you, they know what you like what you do, you're not anything new to them, just old news. girls out of town or w/e don't know you, they're curious, and if you're cute they're even more curious. That's just how it works.
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Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 1:39AM
Have you tried to flirt with them or are you waiting for them to just flirt with you? Just be nice and confident. Try to just be friends so it does not look to them like you are a predator and then they get to know you and you get to know them better.
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Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 7:08PM
if u changed the school u could also change ur model of acting near students easily. :D
get some crazy. if u r so quite guy there, just think -what's the point? people around think about u as a shy person, show them who u r, colour your life in a school to not regret of wasting your time there after. remember, how do u act and what do u wear at school and outside? maybe when u in school u r not bright enough and feel ytourself unseen?u need to understand first why u act differently in school and outside, it's sure something from past made u. actually i have same problem is chool and outside... with people i dont know i can speak really easy and like a bad girl, hehe but those who know me more, i feel sometimes a bit akward. i guess girls dont even flirt with u in school cose u dont give them a chance - u are quite which means in girls' eyes cold and not interested ...but also shy or misterious. u can find a girlfriend(if u dont have one) outside the school. or u can try and start flirting with them yourself. u can ask someone out, girl u are interested in and who is free. besides sometimes u may not see that girl is interested in u, believe me, i am sure there r plenty of girls who want to flirt with u but dunno how cose u r so calm guy. one omre, look in the eyes of the girls from your school if u speak with them. it may become 1st step, if u havent done it yet...
so dunno what else to say, maybe there must be a bit more information to help u out better.
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Posted Jul 19th, 2009 at 12:17AM
if its a school youve grown up in, then theyre used to you and probably see you as a younger version.
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