dont push her away
Push her away. Then reel her back in when she realises she misses you
Do what's natural. Women love when a guy is vulnerable and it doesn't matter what you say as much as how honest you convey that message. Don't be aggressive and don't be bitter about her response either... We women are challenging that way!
And that my dear man is the paradox of being with a woman !
Does the dress make her butt look big?
Yes - You die.
No - "The dress hides her big butt." You still die just slower...