When things get intrusive. When they hurt you.
I've always seen jealousy as destructive. One is willing to sabotage or destroy someone or something. If that one person cannot have it, best no one has it. <br />
When someone is going overboard, they are executing the plan in their mind begin hurting others. All actions stemming from jealousy is overboard.
Jealousy is an unhealthy manifestation of insecurities. Even a little is too much. Don't go there.
when you believe that this person id going to cause you harm and you need to call the police thats the limit.
you'll feel it. the minute you feel you are trying to control or influence....you're already in the trap. Its a difficult feeling to overcome. I started becoming insecure about myself and lost self-confidence, and the jealousy started. This was a long time ago, but i won't make the mistake again....at least my mind tells me so...my heart may feel difference....jealousy...also a big indicator as to who has the power in a relationship....
I don't do jealous-over board
when the restraining orders just don't work anymore and you have to move to the otherside of the country.
When their behavior starts getting affected due to their jealous
when they follow and stalk someone else. which them is really psychotic and controlling