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especially if this is just a girlfriend/boyfriend its not like you made any vows to them, if they break your heart by sleeping around WHY DO THEY DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE? why is it so difficult to see that they obviously dont care -they slept with someone who isnt YOU! why not find someone who will treat you as good as you deserve? this never has made sence to me...if i was being cheated on and i found out...i would be devastated..but that would be the end, no second chance

I agree once someone cheats on you it should be over. Why some people forgive cheating. Such as the Clintons. Hilary did not know Bill would cheat before she married him, she thought he was honest. I would think after living with someone for over two or more years you would know that person. When being in a relationship you should not take the person for granted. Also not having to be looking over your shoulder all the time wondering what your partner is up too. You are not expecting them to cheat on you that late in the relationship. For Hilary to start over again with someone new, hoping the next man would be a honest. She has no guarantee. Leave one cheater for an other. She thought she might as well keep the one she has. It is a gamble to stay with the same person or to go with someone new. Could be that sometimes cheaters wait that long into a realtionship before the decide to cheat this way they feel they won't lose because we have been together a long time and they won't leave me. I don't why cheaters cheat and why some people forgive or leave. Either way in a relationship one of the partners usually gives or loves more than the other. It cannot be fifty, fifty. Too bad.