That is so sad
It seems to me, Midnightstoker, you're way ahead of a lot of men. Hehe at least they're keen to spend more time with you. Why don't you just focus on enjoying their company and be in the moment with them. Forget about where it's headed. They might end up wanting more than just "coffee" with you!
Maybe because you are a pot head.
You should feel lucky! The ones I meet all want expensive booze!
Welp, coffee is supposed to be an aphrodisiac!! Just use your best "self-control" and manners and don't "rise to the occassion"!! If you know what I mean?! lol
Don't worry. You will find someone :-)
Me heart bleeds for you!