depends what you want in a relationship...if you're not getting what you want or need..maybe now is the time.
If you have to ask this question, it's not looking very promising. <br />
You can TELL when someone truly and sincerely wants to be with you.
When YOU FEEL it is time to cut it, and not a set time limit as on the calendar. This is obviously the time for you right now or you would not be asking.
I have to give you credit as I would not have been so kind at the point of him asking for 4 months. He should know by 8 months if there was any real feelings or not. You were more than generous with the efforts and time that you gave.
No clue .. I'm **** at relationships ;-)
Lol ... Hope so x