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When should you cut a relationship (months) if he is still not serious with you after sometime? (Some will string along)

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  1. Tgilly - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Tgilly Nov 24th, 2012 at 6:48PM

    depends what you want in a relationship...if you're not getting what you want or need..maybe now is the time.

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  2. awasadaorang - 26-30 years old

    Posted by awasadaorang Nov 24th, 2012 at 6:49PM

    If you have to ask this question, it's not looking very promising.

    You can TELL when someone truly and sincerely wants to be with you.

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  3. Idoagree - 41-45 years old

    Reply by Idoagree Nov 24th, 2012 at 6:52PM

    Thanks for the honesty. :)

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  4. Wigglebottom - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Wigglebottom Nov 24th, 2012 at 6:44PM

    When YOU FEEL it is time to cut it, and not a set time limit as on the calendar. This is obviously the time for you right now or you would not be asking.

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  5. Idoagree - 41-45 years old

    Reply by Idoagree Nov 24th, 2012 at 6:50PM

    I already cut the relationship 3 months ago, after 10 months. I was very patient and took things slowly. After about 8 mts I brought it up, and he wanted 4 more months.. I didn't see clear efforts, so I cut it short at 10 months. What would he do with the extra 2 months if he isn't doing the work anyway? I know... I am too strict... but he can do his homework at his owntime... :P

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  6. Wigglebottom - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by Wigglebottom Nov 24th, 2012 at 6:53PM

    I have to give you credit as I would not have been so kind at the point of him asking for 4 months. He should know by 8 months if there was any real feelings or not. You were more than generous with the efforts and time that you gave.

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  7. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by atadir Nov 24th, 2012 at 6:49PM

    take it as it comes. as long as you're both on the same page, there's nothing to worry about, but if you're hearing wedding bells, and he's not coming across, you might as well move on.

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  8. LucilleLucilleLucille - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by LucilleLucilleLucille Nov 24th, 2012 at 7:05PM

    For me,a relationship of months is barely a drop in the bucket.
    It always took me a lot longer to want to be serious with anyone.
    If you are not getting what you want,I would talk to him about it and go from there.

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  9. Idoagree - 41-45 years old

    Reply by Idoagree Nov 24th, 2012 at 7:02PM

    Thanks for your perspectives :) People are different. I just get upset when people don't know what they want. At times, the opposite is true, when they are serious, I am the one that is scared :P...

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  10. LucilleLucilleLucille - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by LucilleLucilleLucille Nov 24th, 2012 at 7:05PM

    Lol! :)

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  11. Sharkattackbate - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Sharkattackbate Nov 24th, 2012 at 6:44PM

    No clue .. I'm **** at relationships ;-)

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  12. Idoagree - 41-45 years old

    Reply by Idoagree Nov 24th, 2012 at 6:52PM

    Don't worry - we both will get better at it! ;)

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  13. Sharkattackbate - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by Sharkattackbate Nov 24th, 2012 at 8:59PM

    Lol ... Hope so x

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