When you feel you don't want to go anymore I hate the holidays with my family and I stopped going when I moved out on my own I now LOVE the holidays and have my own traditions that make them great.
Whenever you get enough intestinal fortitude to do so.
when your married
I stopped feeling obligated at 30, when I had 2 kids, and it just wasn't as easy as it used to be. <br />
Now I never see my family. Somewhere in between 30-40, I lost all contact with my family and I have created some amazing traditions on my own.