cause after we lost someone we love, we don't really have a life anymore
It's usually a fraudulent process as people don't like hearing bad stuff about anyone who died. Many famous people who have died but were absolute bastards all their lives suddenly become saints on dying. It's a bad human habit and it's about time they stopped lying and told the truth, like, "Oh well, he was a real bastard so it's good he's gone". May sound callous intially but as it's the truth others will agree with you and say it too. And thus the custom breakds down. But the medis eulogises anyone who dies. Car accidents? They show interviews with family and neightours etc saying they had so much to offer and were the best person they ever met. Usually untrue.
It's a human habit that is very bad as it confuses honest people. You don't know if they are lying or not. It's only of you knew the person that you have the facts and know they lie.
I've never lost a loved one who was mean as hell. If they were that bad, they were not my LOVED ONE and when they passed, I didn't give a hoot.
It's because they got used to the abuse, which they considered was normal behavior...
because even when you think u hate something u really dont learn to appreciate it until it's gone .