WoW thanks! You just made me more stronger.... <br /><br />
thats what i feel when ppl hurt
depends on what kind of hurt we are talking about? physical then I will lash it right back to them! verbal? well I can get mean right back actcha! But if it is like doing say not letting you see your own Grandchild? Well there is not much you can do ,but what I did was tell her they are no longer my Family any more . <br />
Because doing something this hurtful when you can not do a doggon thing about it is hard. When she wants to act like a grown up then I may talk to her again.
How about a mean *** boyfriend? who I think hits her and cheats on her? He is one of my big reasons why I can not see my Grandaughter. I see my other Grandson my youngest daughter I'm close to! I have fun with my Grandson !
Depends on the situstion
Watch in awe as my glorious walls crumble and wonder where I went wrong. Speaking hypothetically of course as I've faced no foe with proper artillery yet.
Oh, it'll happen in due time. I know where I'm weak.
Instinctively I have an urge to hurt them as much as they've hurt me. I'm glad that I've learned to resist that urge because I don't want to operate in the same way as someone whose behaviour I find despicable.
go to my room, wrap myself in blankets and cry in the corner and then i come out of my room 4 hours later still sad
BUT if im physically hurt, i will kill
if someone I know hurts my feelings or is abusive in some way, I internalize my pain; I might hold onto the pain or anger until I have come to terms with it or me and that other person can sit down later and talk it ouit.
I might have to hash it out myself, just deal with what I'm feeling. I've dealt with it that way for most of my life. I haven't always had someone to turn to. I only had myself.
I start off quiet and then get all defensive and start having a go!
Look at my avi.