they may not be real but the pain they cause is
some hurt on purpose, just to hurt
It's not all a lie, it's the truth!!!! Unfortunatly we have expectations, that are the antechamber of delusion.
I learned in my life to not expect anything and take the good until it exist.
I don't know, sometimes your expectations are wrong so whose fault is that? Also people change it is hard but people change, sadly it doesn't really matter what happened whats done is done and you have to move on now.