Whatever someone chooses to use if is their personal choice. I think I have only asked a couple of people if it was really them and they were honest and said no.
Honestly I don't really think about it that much. And so far when curious and asked they have owned up to it not being them.
I think a lot of the time it's for deceit, to seem more attractive...which you can tell by the 'type' they put up. ; ) I'm sure there are some that just want to be anonymous. When it becomes wrong is when they tell people it is actually them, imo.
They have low self-esteem and want to see if they attract more or better people by pretending to be someone else.<br />
Until they realize that being themselves would be more attractive and of course more sustainable.
Recently, I met this guy who told me his ex wife had her own little "online life" going on for years. It was like she didn't want to live her own life, so she created one online. I can understand doing this for a month or so, to see what it's like. However, this woman had played out this other life, for at least 9 years, that he's aware of. 9 years she was an entirely different person, she even had a set of photos that weren't of herself. He said she wasn't trying to be malicious or attempting to fool people, she just wanted another life, because she could.
Well, you look like you're about 8 years-old in yours, so what are you trying to imply? :-)
That's what I mean. It says you're in your 30s, so the first thing I wonder is if that is your daughter or niece or if it's just some random picture you found on the Web. Either way, you picked it for a reason, so it says something about you... We just don't know what.
Then my answer is that it's funny usually. At least that's how I take it. I especially laugh at the ones where it's a guy and the avatar shows a sexy girl.
Are you trying to imply it isn't ME in my avi?
Thank goodness for that, I'm renowned for the trees growing out of me head!
An actual photo of the EPer, or not, I just assume it is whether I'm "fooled" or not isn't that important me personally. The reasons people "con" others can be simply for fun, such as providing a tease, or for more attention, all the way to lack of self-esteem and everything in between.
I asked a similar question a while back, I was painfully reminded of all the people suffering excess boredom on the Internet. It doesn't deter us one bit. My girl and I discovered EP together and made coinciding names. Now for being original and crafty we catch hell! Nonetheless, we don't need a haters validation. These dudes are probably just sad that they lay down at night alone, and I don't.
People just like to hide who they are; they like to put a mask on per say. Sometimes people wish they could change who they are so they make up a whole new person to be. A fantasy self. Some people just like to be stupid and try to play people.
I thought about using my high school picture because that was when I was hot and it wouldn't be a fake profile pic cuz it would have been me...just 35 yrs younger....lol j/k
I swear that cat really is me!<br />
I don't care whether people use fake pics or not. There are many reasons. A long time ago I did it myself because I just didn't want to be known. I wanted a completely different online persona, and of course I'd never have admitted it at the time or it would have ruined the magic. I eventually came clean after YEARS of using a doctored pic of a friend as my own. It turned out not to even be a big deal with them. I guess eight years of talking makes you more than what your pic looks like.
I would have loved to b a fly on the wall as u explained to your ex friend why her photo was plastered all over the Internet. Guess that never happened eh?
She knew the entire time and we're still best friends. Heck she is the one who fixed it up in photoshop.
Some people don't take internet message boards as seriously as we do. She also knew why I did it, but I didn't think it was important to explain here why it was necessary to hide my identity.
witness protection progam
maybe they arent aloud to show thyre face
idk about that but they could put up a cartoon pic idk about that others ppls faces
Many people here won't talk to you if you have one of those offered avatars.
People have the right to put whatever they want. Some people put up stories here that they may not want some people to know about.<br />
Some don't do it to fool people but to hide their identity. Others do it to hide and troll. Those people are the ones that ruin things.
No it's not right. But being online and meeting people you are taking a chance either way. There's good people here and there's a small percentage of bad people.