The latter because it's normal for things not to be well but it's the pulling together after the storm which makes it even stronger.........are you a root or a branch?
It's a fair question. It depends on the situation. Bravery to you and stupidity to someone else. You must look at your happiness first, than try and see how the issue prevents you from living your life as you see it should be.
Sometimes you have to retreat from people who do not mean you well.