When will love come along?

we have been dating for 4months its a long distance thing i have oly got to see him a few wks out of that time hes bout to be deployed. i want him to tell me he loves me before he goes am i asking too much? i love him but i dont wont to say it first bc fear of rejection i guess all in all i will wait on him but i dont want to be theone waiting i want hem to feel the same way if im going to wait should i be thinking a diff. way?

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JUST SAY IT!!! The worst that can happen is he doesn't love you back and knowing whether he does or not will help you a lot. If he doesn't love you he isn't worth your time. If you truly loved him, you would not be able to RESTRAIN yourself from saying it, it would just come out!!

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TheGoldenBear	Posted Jul 26th, 2009 at 10:45AM Do you really want a long distance relationship with a guy that is going off to war?? If you do and you love him...tell him. If he doesn't feel the same way, at least you know and you can move on. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Kindal	Posted Jul 26th, 2009 at 12:00AM I think you need to talk to him and find out if he feels the same way and if you both agree to be monogomous then there is no guessing and you can be free from those thoughts. I do wish you both the best. Rated: +1Vote for this!
denverguy	Posted Jul 26th, 2009 at 12:04AM Saying I love you is such a scary thing for a guy or at least it is for me. You want it to mean something when you do tell her. What you do not want is for her to feel like you do not mean it or its too soon or anything else. Maybe you should tell him first? Rated: +1Vote for this!
mzdivine	Posted Jul 26th, 2009 at 12:08AM He does have Other things on his mind! Tell him your feelings! Don't forgat he is being Deployed! This can take alot out of a bloke! Rated: +1Vote for this!
mariellarose	Posted Jul 26th, 2009 at 12:09AM You should tell him how you feel, and get an established plan of what you two are going to do. If you're planning to stay together, it is especially important that you tell him what you're thinking. You're obviously accustomed to long distance, but it will be significantly more difficult when he's out of the country. Rated: +1Vote for this!
dayenknight	Posted Jul 26th, 2009 at 1:23AM It would be a good idea to ask him how he feels about you first....!!! You have got to know this or you could be waiting for someone who is not interested in committing themselves to you long term and you would have wasted a lot of time anxiety and emotional turmoil in vain....... Rated: +1Vote for this!
reflections3	Posted Jul 26th, 2009 at 2:17AM LOVE WILL COME ALONG WITH IT IS THE RIGHT PERSON, AND THE RIGHT PLACE AND THE RIGHT TIME. Dianna Ross had a song in the 60's called "You Can't Hurry Love" ...............you just have to wait, you know love don't come easy .. it's a game of give and take"... Be Patient, Be Wise, and when love comes along you will surely recognize it. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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