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My moms been gone almost 3 years I cry about it everyday... I'm crying writing this question... I have some resentment due to things in the past that happened. She was an alcoholic for years and a mean drunk... She left me at a young age and I felt anger at her for not ever saying she was sorry... But again she is my momma... I love her a lot she just made poor decisions. On some days I'm filled with guilt over how I shoulda coulda woulda done something to help her more when she was sick... I also have guilt from hateing her sometimes when it comes to some memories... Will this get better and I wont agonize over everything all the time?... I want my heart to rest over this I did got to a therapist but I always came out crying my eyes out. I said da*n I can do that at home like I always do so I dont go anymore... Any help will be greatly appreciated...
agnes1977 agnes1977 31-35, F 8 Answers Aug 16, 2012 in Parenting & Family

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Just remember that your mother would want you to move on. I also agree that if it has been three years and it still does that to you, you should seek some medical advice as that is not healthy.

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I've talked with my dr and she says people grieve differently and It'll be hard its your mom you know... But I have heard some people say ok its time to rest this... I cant help how I feel. Some people dont like for me to talk about her...

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Your stuck in grief. Not good. time to find help and get on with your life. God be with you. But it will pass if you want it to

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ah, stay strong! It's really hard to cope with these kinds of feelings, but you know... you need to move on. You don't have to forget her, she was dear for you, but while crying and thinking about her, you are losing your life - your present moment. Think about it, would she be happy, if you would cry and mourn of her all the time? No, she is your mother, so she wishes you the best. She'd like to see you happy, not crying over her. Stay positive, I wish you lots of strength and I send you big hugs from here.

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Thank you so much I know she wouldnt want me to be this way cryin g all the time but I have such a flood of emotion when it comes to her... I bet shes sitting here next to me saying now your not supposed to be crying all the time. She hated hearing me cry when my ex just walked away she told me to please stop crying it was breaking her heart... I want to be more positive my boyfriend has been awesome through all this...

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Stay strong Agnes, you'll pass this life moment. :)

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Ohhh baby, ((((((((hugs))))))))). I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure it will get less painful with time.

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Thank you for your kindness I'm hoping it will in time become less hurt in my heart...

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Your heart may never fully heal, but it's always best to look forward and try to live your life out in a way that would make your dearest mom proud.

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