I try to meditate on what my values and priorities would have me do, were I to adhere to them.
I'm very tolerent to agrivation. I'm also very vocal about being pushed when at the breaking point. So if people continuously push after being warned, I don't hold back.
I make no attempt to repair the damage done. Life is too short to argue with idiots.
When i reach my breaking point there is no stopping me.
But its always myself i hurt, never anyone else.
It may be with words, to another person, to hurt them.
But physical pain is all for me.
I am the type of person that will try to view the violent thought from the other person's perspective. If I am angry, I feel the anger without action and I see what effect it would have on a person, ob
For me, its always one or the other.. I have no idea how to stop myself from that!
I'll go and punch somebody.