I dont know Im the shy one.
Itd be nice to let myself open up to someone again. I just dont like being misled and opening up for a couple, few week stints then have to start over. Its weird being a guy and feeling used. =(
Open up. Shy people are more interesting. It's the ridiculously cheerful and obnoxious ones that scare me.
They usually make me uncomfortable, and although I try to get them to open up I feel like they think they're being pushed, so I leave it at that and leave them alone.
It is great to get a conversation going with them and leave on a positive note, you know you have taken them out of that prison of silence for a short spell. I used to be shy at one time.
first, I let that person feel okay and relaxed. Then things work their way... I would strongly suggest not to pressure.