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When your partner's in the mood for physical "love" but you're not, how do you feel? what if its the other way around?

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  1. needlessthings - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by needlessthings Feb 20th, 2012 at 7:03AM

    The whole "in the mood" thing is a crock. Your body as a whole is greater than the sum of its parts, notably the brain. Your body remembers. Put it in the right circumstances and biology takes over, moods be damned.

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  2. littlebubeleh - 18-21 years old

    Posted by littlebubeleh Feb 21st, 2012 at 2:22AM

    I usually feel appreciative, but a little guilty that my body is just too tired to please. (I work a lot and don't always get enough sleep for the energy to make love.) Usually I'll pleasure my man in some way other than making love and then have him cuddle me for a bit and we'll take a nap. After my nap, I'll be ready to go, and then he gets more pleased and I'm grateful for his patience, the nap, and the resulting lovemaking as well. ^.^ When he's not in the mood, I understand and settle for kisses. I don't push anything with him, because I can be just as glad to hug him or to talk or to give him a backrub and help him sleep. For us, it's quite understanding on both ends. :3

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  3. TattooedMissez - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by TattooedMissez Feb 20th, 2012 at 3:16PM

    There's rarely a time I'm not interested...very rarely! Him, on the other hand, has a low sex drive...and a boring and routine outlook. I can't even begin to say how frustrated I am and how horrible it makes me feel. Hmm...I may have a new story brewing!

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  4. artbandit - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by artbandit Feb 20th, 2012 at 3:23PM

    sounds intriguing, let me know when its done.

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  5. BabzEsq24 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by BabzEsq24 Feb 20th, 2012 at 7:17AM

    Think of England- even though I'm not English

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  6. deltadon - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by deltadon Feb 20th, 2012 at 6:12AM

    i'm usually the h orndog........understandin........as the poor needs to replenish his bodily fluids

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  7. EarthlingWise - 41-45 years old

    Posted by EarthlingWise Feb 20th, 2012 at 6:01AM

    I can feel sorry if my body is just not ready, I will tell it so, we can cuddle still, and then one thing may lead to anothert, but it's good to be able to say things as you feel them, not force anything.

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  8. badbinary - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by badbinary Feb 20th, 2012 at 5:57AM

    hi this is his partner speaking and i dont mind. lol

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  10. NeopolitanSkye - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by NeopolitanSkye Feb 20th, 2012 at 5:58AM

    Sad, rejected. I would need to know why. If my mate is incredibly tired, on deadline, etc. I get it. It would also depend if this is 'the norm' and how many time they say no - vice versa too I would hope.

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  11. SweetlyLingering - 70+ years old - female

    Posted by SweetlyLingering Feb 20th, 2012 at 5:56AM

    Rejected, hurt....and lost, probably. Probably the same the other way around

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