Or you give up person integrity and happiness for the sake of people that really don't care that much about you.
If the only thing you care about is your popularity , then sycophancy is second nature to you.
I'm not sure one goes with the other, although maybe if someone is two-faced they seem eager to please
You appear to be an individual who is loyal to everyone but yourself ... wishy washy.
To be that eager youd be too faced to start with..
Hmmm Why would one be too eager to please.
when I'm too eager to please, I end up turning my back on myself and giving something to someone else who hasn't really earned the right to have it
obviously your talkin to the wrong person