Well, maybe don't look in clubs and bars. I suggest that you can find decent girls in universities, maybe, or at clubs that people attend for their hobbies i.e. sports clubs, reading clubs, art classes, maybe even some youth groups, and so on. <br />
Girls who have a job tend to be more focused on what they want in life. Pass on the students, they haven't got a clue !<br />
Where do you want to be? Go there and maybe you'll meet someone..
Try any university ... and focus on girls in career oriented type programs.
if your looking for someone who know what they want in life you may always be looking. such a **** request.
because a lot of people even in their 30's still don't know what they want to do with their lives.