aggressive, you know what you are dealing with. So you duly deal with it<br />
passive aggressive is a bit like being around a swinging cobra and being on tender hooks out of fear of it striking
I think the openly aggressive person is the worst because I have one in my family and omg. He has no problem fighting anyone or killing people for that matter. Then my ex is passive aggressive and he bottles stuff up and blows up from time to time. That is less stressful than a full time open aggressive person who's a hot potato.
both suck, but passive agression to me is harder to identify/pinpoint, which makes it more dangerous. it you're hurt and try to explain why, it's a lot harder to express emotional hurt than just "he spit in my face" or "she hit me"
both suck...i choose...c. no mate at all^^
I would always rather deal with the aggressive person. At least then you usually get a straight answer