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I love being submissive all the time even when Im alone.. Cause a women should be obedient and respectful all the time its how things should be :) Im happy for being woman

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Be careful with people who talk of being submissive, or dominant for that matter, in certainties. D/s or BDSM or any other concept, belief, etc that can be applied to any given relationship is whatever those people who are involved in that particular relationship decide it means to them.

There is no D/s bible, no set rules or things that are expected. As a matter of fact, if you are a person who has experienced more than one relationship based totally or in part anything related to D/s you would not only realize these facts, but also express them.

Reality, living this way in the real world and not only fantasy, might require other things to be taken into consideration which may make being submissive 24/7 impossible. Likewise, it might be that your life could allow for you to be submissive 24/7 in all things. It could also be that you are only submissive sexually, or a sexual submissive but not in every day life. Or it could even be that you are submissive in daily life, but not sexually. These are only a few examples of the differences that can occur in a relationship that has aspects of D/s involved in it.

Unfortunately, people who express to others who are not submissive or dominant, are often judged as being a certain way and will then label them as such in their mind. Many people will chastise, gossip, ostracize, etc based on this judgment. Those of us who do have experience in this lifestyle, or how we naturally feel and choose to live are often disappointed by this judgement. Yet many still choose to judge others based on their on misconceptions that everyone should believe as they do, and seem to label those who choose to express their submissive or dominant personality traits in a different way. We should know better than to judge others with similar but not exact beliefs. We of all people should know better.

When expressing your own feelings or thoughts about D/s, it might serve everyone far better if you do so in a way that expresses those things as opinion, as your own set of rules that you live by. Stating things as fact, and then emphatically insisting on these facts is not only wrong and misleading, but damaging to the larger D/s community at large. It could chase those away who seek to understand themselves better as it might make them feel that they do not feel the same way, and thus must not fit into this lifestyle in any way.

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i am always submissive--it is a lifestyle i chose

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24/7 submissive

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A truly submissive woman submits to her man in all ways at all times. He may direct her to do things for him, but it is at his directive.

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usually only in the bedroom, but any room can be turned into a bedroom :)

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I am submissive about 90% of the time. Definitely in the bedroom.

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I have only been able to be submissive with a dominant man. When the role is set up, the dynamic is that I feel submissive..... Always. The dom determines when I can be more dominant. This is the way I like it to be. If your relationship started at where two people are equal..... It is more difficult to change the roles.

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