If you receive more compliments on your body than your personality.
maybe your bodies more attractive then your personality.
Here comes an honest comment: I doubt there is any man who is not attracted to a woman mostly for her looks; I think most men are attracted to women mostly for this reason. There also appears to be lot of men speaking about women's personality as though it is more important to them than the way she looks. Therefore I think a lot of men are not being completely honest out there, either with themselves or others, or both.
another honest comment: The personality vs. body dichotomy is pointless.
Women have X amount of values from a sexual relationship perspective, and some of those are superficial, while others are emotional, and or mental traits.
Submissiveness, assertiveness, kinkiness, willingness to please ect. ect.
I think that most people do actually hold these type of qualities valuable.
i can safely say i love a personality and i can believe in what she says because,,,, I have never seen her but i love her just the same. so there and that's true! isn't that right babe?
Here's an idea; try not stereotyping all men just because you focus mostly on looks. *I* am a guy who cares above all about his fiancee's personality.
@ RandomErr If your fiancee looked like a walrus, I seriously doubt you would care much about her personality at all.
...and you asked her out the first time why again? Let's not kid ourselves here. You asked her out because you thought she was good looking. You stayed with her and committed to her in a monogamous relationship because you fell in love with her personality.
No. I met her online; I fell in love with her having no idea what she looked like. And then later, when I had already decided I would stay with her regardless of her looks, it turned out she was gorgeous.
The male libido is visually driven predominantly. Of course we're more 'attracted' by looks than personality. However, it is a woman's personality that makes me want to spend time with her.
@ Shoreboy I hear what you say. Let me add that if she changed from beautiful to looking like a walrus, despite her great personality, it would most likely be a significant factor in changing the way the man feels about wanting to spend time with her.
It wouldn't. I'm not that shallow.
Give it enough time, and I think it would start to bother you.
Thats a good one...youre girl might be the ***** if thats the case lol
If he wants to know where you go at all times .... Oh and if he gets upset that you go out with your gfs!
Being easily jealous
lol, ive done that.
wow, it was not until I read your answer that I realized this is soo true!!
id, give ya 5 stars, for creativity alone
"Do this or else you don't love me!"<br />
"Do this or else we're through!"<br />
"Do this or else I'll hurt myself!"<br />
FIRE ENGINE RED FLAGS.
Then i'm not jumpin through any more hoops, that's it.,,,,,, after tonight
Yeah anyone who uses blackmail tactics in what is supposed to be a partnership between two people... ding ding ding...
Wish I saw this way before I got in too deep with my now ex so I wouldn't have wasted my time.
I been accused of being manipulative, and at the same time found her controlling, but I really think is miscommunication in my case, I had no thoughts of this and her neither, although I'm sure there are some that do.
Someone trying to take their **** out on a first date. I've always viewed that as a strong indication that the date should end pretty quickly.
Especially at the counter in McDonald's
And I thought that's what all the cool kids were supposed to do... They lied to me!!!
Doh, they got stuff you spray on that ,,,i think
Haha that's funny!!!
First off, you should always politely ASK her if she would like to scratch it... and then if not, by all means go for it!
When they are over enthusiastic in complimenting you yet their words do not show up in their actions.
You said it well angelicsmiles. When dating we tend to see only what we want to see. Even a fire engine with all bells and whistles going can be hard to spot, if you know what I mean.
I do know what you mean. :) Thank you.
If they appear as ' Too Perfect ' ...there's no such thing as 'perfect human beings' .. if somebody come across as too perfect then they're seriously hiding a lot of filth and it's time you should RUN !!! :P
True, or you can ask and if they are honest about it it's worth getting to know the person but if they don't talk about it they are in denial about it or trying to hide it. Press the issue and enjoy the show if you like there will be more if not then we leave as strangers as we started
Well we all have love problems (I can only speak for myself there, yes I do have love problems) but love is natural and unnatural thanks to chemical understanding. But love is society trained.
oohhkkayyy... umm what if the guy is just genuinely nice, happens to be good looking, happens to have a good body due to his lifestyle and happens to have a very good stable career that pays well. So... dump him?
"let me tell you about my cat"
Maybe that's why I'm still single. 🐈
Aww...I am a cat person and if a guy dislikes cats, then he isn't someone I'd go out with (especially if he said to choose between him and my cat). I'd rather listen to someone talk about their cat (or dog) for 20 minutes over listening to someone talk about their kid or an ex.
Cats are the greatest
Hearing muffled screams coming from the ba<x>sement as he's serving the dinner he prepared "especially for you". RUNNNNN!!
hahaha good one, rainy
Thank you folding. :))
Why do you keep replying 'love problem' or 'love solution' to people's posts?
oh your good,
Thank you. :))
Or won't tell you what the meat they are serving is ..
I think: he's easily angered and doesn't keep his word; he/she is flirting with other women/men while dating you.
They tell you they love after only a week of knowing you
If they don't love me after the first hour or two .... why would I wanna keep them around for a WEEK!???
thats a knee slapper, lol
sO what of it? juskidding
I fell in love with my boyfriend really fast. It was totally overwhelming. Needless to say, I was honest about it and in March it will be a year.
I believe you can fall in love at first sight and truly love someone i was more along the lines of, theres a lot of girls that throw around i love you just cause and thats something to consider so red flag, you know
I had one of those. Now he hates me...
**** happens, can't please everyone
You are right. Only adolescents, the mentally ill and con artists do that.
How they treat people around them, or whether they talk derogatorily about some one or keep criticizing... chances that they might talk the same way about you too.
talks to much about ex and what was wrong with them.
When she starts screaming instead of shutting the hell up and helping me hide the body.
That happens to You as Well! ... I knew I wasn't crazy!
frigging hate that
You are constantly being asked to do things you're not comfortable with
like 'stop that' 'get back in the car' 'give that ladies hat back' i get that ,ALOT
"Just let me go!" "Call an ambulance!" "Please, not the hose again." or the worst... "Try these crab puffs." UGH. I hate crab.
Lying of ANY sorts.
When the other person starts collecting your hair and trash and stuff because they secretly have a shrine of you in their closet.
yes cute but unacceptable
Tell your friend to read The Gift of Fear by Gavin DeBecker, it's free to read on Amazon now. And remind her that if a marriage lasts less than a year, in most places, a good attorney can get you an annulment, no divorce needed.
"Sooo.. About my son..."<br />
Wait what you have a child?!
self-centred people as well as a history of cheating
Should have seen the red flags Before the date.
What if it's a blind date?
oH now there fun,,, um i better not start, some blind person may see it, get offended
That's why i carry a EP RED FLAG'S WARNING card, they usually inspect it and suddenly remember forgotten appointments. I don't have to fool; with those Stupid introductory pleasantries, hello, whats your name PFFFFT Gag me
Unnecessary groping and the fact that sex is their first topic for conversation.
wow, you found a classy one there.