You should congratulate yourself and pat yourself on the back for ending it. I know a little about this but I fought back but realized I shouldn't have to fight back. I think men who are abusive to their women are the scum of the earth. No one deserves to be treated like that. I walked out without a word and never looked back. I am in a sexless relationship and its a problem for me but at least I don't have to worry about an abusive man. I remember it well. Never knowing what kind of mood he would be in when he walked in the door. It was horrible. I guess he thought I would just stand there and take it but he got quite a surprise. The ramifications were horrible since it took me awhile to get over it and it effected my reactions to men. You will be fine.
CALL ON ME I HOPE I CAN MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER.