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  1. sibyll - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by sibyll Sep 24th, 2012 at 4:04AM

    My mom-her birthday is in 2 days if she'd be alive yet. My heart broke when she died 5 months after my brother.

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  2. HardingP119 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by HardingP119 Sep 24th, 2012 at 5:48AM

    That is so sad. To lose two so quickly. I hope you are now able to cope from the loss. Although we cannot forget, the legacy that she may have left you, should be of comfort. Hugs and thanks for your response.

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  3. sibyll - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by sibyll Sep 24th, 2012 at 6:45PM

    You are so sweet-am . At 55 still get screwed up, how does that work??? still coping-

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  4. DAVEY200011 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by DAVEY200011 Aug 19th, 2012 at 10:22AM

    Same with me Mum had a big heart & warmth dad always a mean nasty person - only the good die young & she is gone & he lives on

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  5. HardingP119 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by HardingP119 Aug 20th, 2012 at 4:12AM

    It is sad, as time goes on we analyse things more, and may find that they initial love that we had (even for mum) may now be cloudy due to the fact that we may consider the she could have done more. Thank you Davey for your response

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  6. sibyll - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by sibyll Sep 24th, 2012 at 6:46PM

    Sounds like us-mom was the glue-smart took care of us while dad was an abussive a hole to me my beother and mother. Not a day that goes by hewr and my brother are'nt in my mind.

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  7. onwayout - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by onwayout Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:07AM

    I don't love neither one of them. Sometimes, love can fade away when love is not the top priority.

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  8. HardingP119 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by HardingP119 Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:12AM

    We tend to love someone who loves us first. That is how we grow up as infants and we bond. It is the barriers that spring up which alienate us. Tx for your reply. :)

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  9. onwayout - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by onwayout Jul 20th, 2012 at 10:32AM

    You're welcome; thank you for your message. :)

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  10. caito - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by caito Jul 21st, 2012 at 10:12AM

    I love both of them for different reasons. My mom because, well, she's my mom and I know she loves me more than anyone else in the entire world. Even when she ****** me off or I disappoint her, I know she still loves me. I love my dad because he understands me. We're a lot alike, we're kindred spirits and old souls.

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  11. HardingP119 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by HardingP119 Jul 21st, 2012 at 10:14AM

    You are blessed Caito to have two loving parents. Treasure them and keep them. Tell them that you love them as often as possible. Thanks for your response Caito.....:) hugs

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  12. Janeybird75 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Janeybird75 Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:19AM

    My mum was chronically ill all my life and passed away when I was 19.
    I had to rely ony dad more as mum was often not there.
    I lived my mum dearly but the bond was stronger with my dad.
    Is it a question of love or really connection

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  13. HardingP119 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by HardingP119 Jul 20th, 2012 at 10:04AM

    I understand what you are saying about the connection. It must have been a trying time during the time of her illness. It was good that you had your dad to rely upon more. I am sure he would been thankful that you were there for him too. Thank you for your response Janey. bless you. Phil

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  14. arcticfox3 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by arcticfox3 Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:13AM

    My dad, he could really understand me and accept me for who I was, mum was always very cruel and competitive with me for no reason. Dad was the only real family I had growing up.

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  15. HardingP119 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by HardingP119 Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:17AM

    Thanks for your kind response. It was just the other way around for me. As I have responded to the previous answer, I just cannot understand the way my dad treated me. Never shed a tear when he passed away. Sad that I could not comfort my mum at that time. Strange, how little things come to your mind. :)

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  16. arcticfox3 - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by arcticfox3 Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:31AM

    When my dad passed in 2002 to cancer I was sad, mad, frustrated all at the same time. It affected me for quite some time and I literally hit rock bottom. Over the last 3-4yrs I have managed to pick myself back up and despite everyday life challenges, I have found a great sense of peace with myself I never thought possible. I know dads spirit is always with me even though the rest of my family is a thing of the past. We may never know why family members do what they do but the more we try to figure it out will just send us on a spiral down. (HUGS)

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  17. Takumii - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Takumii Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:04AM

    Whats the point when you dont get love for love.

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  18. HardingP119 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by HardingP119 Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:14AM

    Takumi. Agree in general. Our parents initial love for us (if there was) has at some point gradually declined. There are various things that cause this. I for certain cannot truly pin point why my dad was so strict and abusive. Thanks for your response

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  19. Takumii - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Takumii Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:16AM

    your welcome.

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  20. mulder - 26-30 years old

    Posted by mulder Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:02AM

    Neither one

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  21. HardingP119 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by HardingP119 Jul 20th, 2012 at 9:15AM

    "Mulder", then I need to be thankful that I at least have one that I love. I am so sorry to hear that. I am, truly. tx for your response.

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