Who do i deal with a cheating boyfriend thats flirts with every girl i cant break up with him i love him
14 Answers to "Who do i deal with a cheating boyfriend thats flirts with every girl i cant break up with him i love him"
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You can't and never will change him. If he loved and respected you, he wouldn't be hurting you with that kind of behavior. Find someone who will love you back and respect you.
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well, you could always wait until you have born three of his children.....and then finally realize he is a bad influence on them. He will find somebody else no matter how many of his babies you have. Sooner or later you will be alone, and he will have moved on, but as long as you keep putting up with that behavior he will keep doing it.
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u love him but he flirts with every girl. get away soon, he is mentally ill
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Just immaturity maybe a few years from now after his heart has been broken a few times, he'll grow up and learn from his past mistakes. I'd move on if I were you and date other guys...life is too short to be DISRESPECTED!!!
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Deep down inside, you believe you are not valuable. Therefore, you have and will continue to draw traumatic circumstances into your life so the deeply-held beliefs can say, "I told you so, you are no darn good".
That is not love. You have som learning to do, but you are still a youngling. I just hope you release that belief sooner, rather than later. Some people never grow out of it, and they never learn self-love, they remain dependent on others for their opinions their whole life.Like (1)
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Either get used to it, or find someone that cares about your feelings. If he loved you he wouldn't want to hurt you and wouldn't act that way. There are plenty of better guys out there just get some self confidence and get the strength to leave. You can live without a boyfriend for a while. Otherwise you will be crushed when he eventually leaves for someone who he thinks suits his needs better. He will just walk all over them too, so better them than you. He could at least not do it right in front of you and that is just disrespect. Get someone who respects your feelings enough to pay attention to you.
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We accept the love we think we deserve.
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Trust is huge.....if you can't trust him, because he's a cheater, then leave his sorry @ss...if it's truly just flirting, then that's fine....you can work through that...
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Your funeral, then..
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Before you think about loving others, you should love yourself...otherwise, you get stuck the way you are
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Break up with him. He clearly doesn't love you.
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Then you will continue to suffer. Kick him to the curb and find someone else.
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Break up with him. He obviously doesn't feel the same way you do.
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he says every day that he is sorry and he is in love with me and he feels bad that he does it
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Uh huh. Repeat offenders do not deserve more chances because you can't trust them anymore.
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Posted by dollysworld Dec 19th, 2012 at 9:49AM
Its impossible to love someone like that. It sounds like you are in love with the idea of him loving you. First lesson in love....You cannot change him unless he himself chooses to change of his own accord. You deserve better. Let him go.
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