My heart but my mum sometimes guides me. She had to step in with my abusive partner when things got worse, after trying to keep her nose out. Although I've found my soul mate who treats me like a queen, I still ask my mum for her opinion on my boyfriend because she may be picking up something I'm missing on his behaviour. Good mums are the best :)
That is usually because her parents feel maybe she was too young to be dating, not because you were bad to her or anything. If she's 18+ she shouldn't listen to her parents so much! I wouldn't let my parents stop me from seeing someone I truly loved. If they told me to leave my current boyfriend, I'd laugh in their face and stay, then proceed to tell them how great he treats me (but they already know).
Maybe there was more of a reason behind it.
I would try and listen to both
Im 20 and know im full of sh*t thinking I know it all so if I like someone I may have the blinders on while my mom can see through the bullsh*t
I like listening to both to make sure my.mind isnt clouded
Neither. I listen to my brain.