Who Has issues with their Daddy's Girl? She is 19, but acts like her Daddy is her Boyfriend;Upset when he doesn't call?
My Ex,left us in 2000 so for 7 years the 3 kids had very little to no contact at all.
She moved in with her Dad, in 2007, She is very obsessed with her Daddy, she gets very Jealous & Angry with anyone who takes her Daddy's Time away from her!!
He has a Partner, but she acts as he doesn't exist. She is always talking about her Dad as if he is her Boyfriend, to other Family Members. She has turn Dates downs, she has never Dated, and Plans to live with her dad forever.
6 Answers to "Who Has issues with their Daddy's Girl? She is 19, but acts like her Daddy is her Boyfriend;Upset when he doesn't call?"
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I was gonna say she has an attachment issue, but I'm thinking that is something she needs to see a therapist for... really.
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Oh wow... I just read the rest of the answers. Just because she's unusually attached to her father doesn't mean he's molesting her or worse, that's an absolute crapshot to automatically assume one has anything to do with the other.
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Have you spoken with the father to question whether things are going on behind closed doors? (wrong to as but sadly that does happen in some cases) but yep time for some help.
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I have tried, he just says it's because they are Super Bonded! He doesn't have a 1/3 of the Bond with Our Son 16 & Baby Girl 15. But he was with her the Most for the first 4 days of her life to bond with her. He just says it Just her being a Daddy's Girl!!
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I was a Daddy's girl, I spent tons of time with my father, I was NEVER molested and nothing unsavory was happening, I just adored the man and he adored me. Leave her alone, people do what they want to do, if she wants to be with her Dad, that is her business, don't go making it incesuous, not all people are freaks! Are you jealous of her relationship with her father?
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No, I Love my Girl, I have been there for her all the time. She bonded with her Daddy first, after she was born; she was very sick & so was I. They are super close, I'm not a Daddy's Girl, I didn't know if we need to be concern.
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Anything is possible but there was nothing unusual about the time I spent with my Dad, we were just very close, I hope this is the same situation and is safe for your dear one.
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I don't think this is a sexual thing. I would love to have a daddies girl, and no I don't get off on family sex or molestation. Love, affection, and attention are nice. Though at some point he has to see that if his relationship with her is hurting her maturing process. She is just a late bloomer, she'll chill and move on once she finally falls in love. It will happen. It is inevitable.
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I too wonder if dad has taken this relationship somewhere it shouldn't go...but asking him is pointless, as he won't admit to it if it is true.
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He, Is Bi-Sexual; been with Men for 8 1/2 out 9 1/2 years being married. His partner & Him have been together for over 8 years. She denies his partner is a Man! But it's ok if her friends at school or classmates from High School, have these lifestyles. The other two kids are accepting of who their Father is, They love their Dad for who he is!!! He is my Oldest Friend, & has help me when I need help! She seems to almost Idolize him.
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Posted by ddandme Aug 20th, 2012 at 10:46PM
Oh my time to knock on that therapists door..
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Reply by Infinite9 Aug 20th, 2012 at 10:47PM
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