Not sure how long have you been together? Has he always had a temper? Is he that controlling? But going to bed and not calling should be OK, regardless if you went to a funeral or not.

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I think you are spot on sadly controlling is the word. Many thanks x

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Hope you find someone better, we all deserve better.

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That's totally crazy...NO, HE'S totally crazy. You just got back from a funeral and you don't call him so he get's pissed?

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Cheers and thanks.x

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Anytime. Keep calm and move on xx

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Your boyfriend should have shown you more respect. I belive you did the right thing.

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We all need me time your boyfriend should understand that

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Thanks Bill. x

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Thanks Bill x

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No one is "wrong". If you think it is controlling behavior and it is a part of his DNA, then you know what to do.<br />
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My fiancé and I talk on the phone several times a day and if I can't reach her for hours and it is our usual time to talk (ie, bedtime) I am usually ticked off. She is also the same way when she needs to talk. Just set boundaries. It would not have been a big imposition for you to text him after the funeral that you were emotionally drained and needed to go to bed. Just use a system that is not burdensome for you or him, but gives the other person information that they will not hear from you again for the day or whatever period of time.<br />
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If he can't be understanding with that, then you have larger issues.

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I thank you for your articulate answer and a different angle on the situation. Thanks again x

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One thing for sure.. he can hold his temper a long time

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Yeah exactly and thanks it's great to get some feedback x

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