Who should handle a relationship? The boyfriend or the girlfriend, and why?

Asked By: juliasoleil17 26-30, F 6 months ago

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Posted by fragments Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:34PM

Handle? It should be a 50/50 thing for both.

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Posted by Joseph84 Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:33PM

Both

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Posted by inthebelljar Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:32PM

um.. a relationship takes commitment, participation and effort from two people.. that's the only way it will work..

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Posted by re8wqe45 Nov 18th, 2012 at 11:20PM

Because the male and female are equal in a relationship or marriage, they are both responsible for handling the relationship.

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Posted by thenewestdaughter Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:59PM

Both

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Posted by bijouxbroussard Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:53PM

Both, equally. They're both participants.

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Posted by a68taurus Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:45PM

Exactly, that's why I'm so sick of my new boyfriend's strict rules... We're not allowed to see each other during the weekdays... he doesn't want to talk on the phone, we have to text or email... we're not allowed to sleep over at each others places... I'm not allowed to take the bus to his house, he has to pick me up and drive me. We're in our 40's... in this normal for 6 weeks into a relationship? I'm all for feeling things out in the beginning, but I can't take this forever. It would be too bad... he's cute, employed, tidy, hung, and he can cook too!

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Reply by juliasoleil17 Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:46PM

shows the HE is handling the relationship. why is it like that? are you sure he's not married?
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Reply by a68taurus Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:55PM

He says that he's divorced, and he broke up with his last girlfriend in the spring. He says he's still friends with his ex-wife and I know for a fact his ex-girlfriend wants him back, but seriously... I'm starting to feel like something's up.
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Posted by johnnywillsave Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:35PM

Is this a serious question? Why would it be up to one side?

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Reply by juliasoleil17 Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:37PM

yes. i most of the time hear from people that it's up from the girl for a relationship to work... on how she handles the relationship. confused a bit
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Reply by johnnywillsave Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:39PM

I never thought ANYONE would ask this question. No, it's not up to just 1 person. If so then it's not a relationship.
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Posted by Rennn Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:32PM

Whichever one happens to want to at any given time.

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Posted by Hermey Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:31PM

what do you mean 'handle' a relationship?

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Posted by TheOnlyBenis Nov 18th, 2012 at 10:31PM

You're kidding, right? It should be both.

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