Who will you choose your ex whom you still love (but you're afraid that he might hurt you again) or your current bf?
Your ex have hurt you in the past because he got an affair with another woman but now he comes back to make reparation with you. But you already have started a new relationship with another guy. But you still have feelings with your ex. And your current bf have showed you goodness. And you feel guilty. How will you choose between them. You don't want them to get hurt,.
8 Answers to "Who will you choose your ex whom you still love (but you're afraid that he might hurt you again) or your current bf?"
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Only a fool will go back to the ex, if they do i am afraid they will relieve the past just like an abuser people like this can not just change. If you have a great guy appreciate him stay with him and forget about the ex, and be thankful you got a guy like that they are hard to find.
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going back to an old lover is like reading the same book over and over yet you know the end.....
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If you're not over a person, you shouldn't be dating someone else, it's not fair on them or yourself. When I started to date a guy a couple years ago, he was still in love with another girl and it was just horrible. And what's the point of going bak to someone who messed up and cheated? People don't seem to know what they want...
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Couldn't agree with you more =)Like (1)
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*********! :D
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Actually bohaven's got the right of it here, but for some reason I can't say that under his comment. He must've blocked me for some reason.
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Stop.Break up with everyone and find you.You are lost in other people.
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i would not go back to the ex.
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There is that thing about once a cheat always a cheat.
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by Remington591 Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:29AM
If your current boyfriend has been good to you, he is the one who deserves your love. It is unfair of you to dump a good man to give a jerk another chance.
sed on no change at all being seen in how he respects relationships, why are you even considering having another one with him?
In the case of your ex, you wouldn't be hurting him; he has already hurt himself with his choices. If your ex wants another chance at having a relationship, he needs to have it with another woman. The fact that he is trying to restart one with you when he knows that you have a boyfriend shows that he is just as self-centered and disrespectful of relationships as he was when he cheated on you. He didn't respect the relationship when he had one with you. He doesn't respect the relationship that you are in now with another man. ba
In case you haven't realized it, you dumping the good man to be with the bad boy would be the ethical equivalent of your ex cheating on you. Your boyfriend placed the same level of trust in you that you placed in your ex when your boyfriend began a relationship with you. If you feel that it is wrong that your ex betrayed your trust, why are you even considering the possibility of betraying your boyfriends trust? You'd end up being just as much of a selfish jerk as your ex is.
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