I'd like to be able to forgive Uncle Rick for molesting me for all those years but I can't imagine I ever will. I just try not to dwell on it. Don't forgive, dont forget - just let it go and move on - and hope the nightmares don;t come too often
Some things are just unforgivable
When someone has done something wrong they need to make restitution to restore the prior balance.
A person who has not made restitution is not ready to be forgiven.
When restitution has been made the balance has been restored so there is nothing to forgive.
When restoration has been made the balance has been restored and my mind is at peace.
...I must say, I like this person's train of thought.
But does one need to know what the balance is or even know what the restitution is beforehand?
@Lysander: If someone stole your goat, they need to give you a goat back. If someone took your money, they need to give you money back. If someone did something else, they need to give you something of similar value to offset your loss.
My momma... I can't. :(
I do not do forgiveness sorry
Myself since I feel really bad every time I think about some past incidents and my role in them
Am a nobody in this portfolio. Rather am thankful to one n ALL
all that has come out till now in the form of a me is much much better than ever was.
Questioner never puts personal views as suggested earlier.
NOT a single person
I rang my sister on the day my son passed away and ask her to go get our father and she replied she was to busy and hung up on me. would you forgive this person
God, for making me
No, I apologise if you felt I expressed it that way. What I meant was that I would like to forgive God for making me because truthfully, I have no idea whether the purpose is love or fear
I have no one to forgive, all things that have been done to me or around me have made me who I am. For better or worse, I am a much stronger person and better mom.
myself, but that wont ever happen
because i refuse to forgive myself for what i have done.
There are some things that I am sore about that my mom has done in the past and persists in doing now. Hard to forgive when it is basically a cycle that is bound to repeat. And those things do come between us.
Jesus... on second thought, I'd rather shoot him...
for losing its sense of morality and independence.
I have forgave some.
Some will never
Do you know why things are that way? I don't like it.
hmmm... i think that makes sense for me too. It's like I'm being too much of a disciplinarian versus just being a friend to myself. Too much judgment and not enough compassion. But I'm not the Dalia Lama so it's hard.
my parents , not teaching me things i asked them to
both have a business ,father car dealer /mom jewellery sales , i tried to learn how its done and what to do and whats that etc, at age 13 til 18 , 0 information shared regarding operation procedures , and i know only gold/silver metals in jewellery stuff while there is some stones i wanted to know their names but still mom don't wana help
that's crap. why bother having children if not to teach them?
atleast i managed to learn online ,photo edit/video edit/english language , some people are worst very very worst than what am facing ;P