Thankfully neither are harsh, but in my case, family judges more; I'm one of them whether I like it or not, whether THEY like it or not, and I'm expected to behave accordingly. On the other hand, my friends and I chose each other, ba
They both judge in different ways, but (for me, at least) it's because they care what decisions I make and how I act.
The people that I'm related too judge me to the utmost extreme, until I decided to cut them out of my life. I don't deal with it anymore. I'm not sure why that happens to people, it just does.
For me, its the other way. My friends are supportive and I get along with them perfectly. My familiy, from the other hand, are nothing like that.