Depends what type of help it is??<br />
If I need someone to help me lift something its my brother in law.<br />
If I want to air a problem then its my best friend.<br />
If I want to talk about an emotional issue its my wife.<br />
If it how to do a sliding dovetail, then its the internet.<br />
I am proud enough to look after my best interests..I have a select "inner circle" that I can speak openly with..
I do struggle to ask but I have one very trusted friend who would be the one I turn to.