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Billions of men. One lady seek a boyfriend. Impossible to miss the boat init?! Billions of men all over the world. Still hard to find love somewhere. Love is a gem. A rare gift just like finding a small diamond in the sands. U look and look. U look high and low and every inch of the cracks u find, still missing the gem. U don't look, it comes from nowhere. Just like when u loose something and u search for it hard and u can't find it. U find it the next time when u weren't even looking for it. Damn thing init! If u have the charms, you're lucky in love. If u ain't, u would looking for a long long time like me.
Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 10 Answers Aug 28 in Dating & Relationships

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if you look too hard, you may miss the obvious.

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The obvious? Can't see any obvious ones and there's none to begin with either. I only know my bro in law, cousins and my sis's good friend who's married with a kid. I thought of my first love. I thought of the reasons why I loved him and couldn't find any except that he was handsome and funny. Wen we grew up he didn't like me when i still liked him alot so I went on with my own life.

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there are no other men around? at all? from what you said, it seems you are attached to the past and can't see the obvious.

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Def No other guys around. I'm trying to detached myself from my bad experiences in men. Some of them really broke me and I wasn't the same since then. I'm scared of dating men again and most of them don't wanna date me. Just it and cuz I'm a good girl they either ignore me or really dislike me.

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how odd... perhaps you need a change? move somewhere else? somewhere bigger? there seems to be very little choice there

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I live UK. I can't move cuz I'm a single mom with a teen boy. My sis lives close by. I've only got 3 mates I don't see much. I don't have a social life either. I have a depression too so any guys who knows that I have those things are not interested. Like I said I'm not good enuff. The one I really like chose another woman. Thankyou for all your advices.

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good luck. depression doesn't scare men off.

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Really? I'm glad to hear that.
Thanks once again:)

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maybe your scaring the fishes way.................you scared me reading the question................lol.....im kiddin.......maybe just be your coming to strong or trying to hard

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I did scare a man when I told him I liked him and I never saw him again. Trying hard? Not me.

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:)

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When did you start seriously looking?

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I gave up in about this May I think.

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Umm thats not what i asked. But ok...

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hell... this may seem a strange complaint coming from a guy, but it's easier for me to get a girl directly into bed than it is to get to know someone first.... i hate the dating the world at this age

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Wow lol

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lot of males also think like that

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I'm sure they do cuz they too have feelings.

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hold the line

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sounds to me your looking for the perfect man - not happening!!!!

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No I wasn't looking for a perfect man. There's def no such thing. lol I've given up on looking for a man. Too much heartache and they always pass me over for someone else so basically I'm not good enuff anyway.

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sorry to hear that about you giving up . you cannot judge a few bad apples and say hey the entire male population is this.

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Many men have felt the same way when looking for a partner.

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You're rite.

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Hummm

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Ummmm????

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