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Why after 7 years does my rape fill my mind so much. I thought it was all in the past. The memories excite me!

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    lilylilyrose - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by lilylilyrose Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:44AM

    I know personally how excrutiatingly painful this can be. Do you want to talk?

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  1. Dianebradshaw - female

    Reply by Dianebradshaw Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:56AM

    please

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8 Answers to "Why after 7 years does my rape fill my mind so much. I thought it was all in the past. The memories excite me!"

  1. Acrimonyx - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Acrimonyx Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:43AM

    That's pretty ****** up.

    I take it you are now going to turn into a reckless **** in an attempt to "take back your sexuality" for yourself in order to feel a sense of control over your body and your sexuality.

    I have seen this kind of behaviour countless times adopted by victims of rape and sexual abuse, and quite frankly it disgusts me and I find it pathetic.

    It is a self-perpetuating method of functioning which only hurts the cause of those who have suffered from sexual abuse of any kind.

    You should not feel ashamed that you were raped. You SHOULD feel ashamed for sexualizing the experience in a positive way.

    I honestly hope you are trolling, even if that means I just took the bait. If not, then you my dear, are revolting and need some serious psychological help.

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  2. breakingdawnOne - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by breakingdawnOne Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:31AM

    Get some couseling,I don't know the prcentage of women that this occurs with but its rather sad. Rape isn't something to relish.

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  3. Dianebradshaw - female

    Reply by Dianebradshaw Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:38AM

    Thank you.

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  4. breakingdawnOne - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by breakingdawnOne Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:43AM

    I hope you will be ok,in time I wish you the best.

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  5. Lucinnda - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Lucinnda Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:17AM

    troll-o-rama, dude.

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  6. Thedudeian - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Thedudeian Mar 8th, 2013 at 5:29AM

    I'm sorry for the hurtfull things some of these ppl said I myself was the victim of a brutal group rape
    Which left me very confused sexually
    Because as terrifying and painfull as the experience was , thinking but on it does nothing but make me so horny ..... :( ... :)
    It's hard and confusing
    I posted the story of my rape on here , I recommend you do the same , getting it off your chest anonomysly
    Feels amazing

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  7. Messyah - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Messyah Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:30AM

    Either see a shrink or find a way to resolve it. Otherwise the part of you that hates it and the part that gets excited and the part of you that is ashamed of the excitement will start fracturing your psyche right down the middle.

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  8. Dianebradshaw - female

    Reply by Dianebradshaw Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:38AM

    Thank you. Life seems so strange at the moment.

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  9. Steven46 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Steven46 Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:13AM

    You need to resolve that. Go talk to a shrink. Seriously. You have no idea how it may manifest if you don't.

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  10. bloodNroses - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by bloodNroses Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:16AM

    yea she is in trouble. I knw what u mean

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  11. Steven46 - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by Steven46 Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:17AM

    I'm an abuse survivor myself. I still don't get this world. Went untreated for 30 years. Now I have no friends, no SO, and no life. Hate to see someone else go through that.

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  12. bloodNroses - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by bloodNroses Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:12AM

    u r lonely, arnt u??

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  13. Dianebradshaw - female

    Reply by Dianebradshaw Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:16AM

    yes. a workaholic.

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  14. bloodNroses - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by bloodNroses Mar 8th, 2013 at 4:19AM

    I myself am a workholic, ok I wish u feel better, and bring romance in ur life if u can, tht should make u feel lot better. My ex is a survivor and i knw what u mean.

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