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Why am I always scared when a man wants to talk to me especially when they are of a different race?

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Maybe you're just not used to interacting with men who are of a different race.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Well we all have our preferences -- maybe you are more comfortable interacting with men of your own race. But if you are scared when any man talks to you maybe you are just shy! Good luck, from a shy girl.
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Posted Dec 22nd, 2008 at 8:18PM
your probably so used to dating a certain race....it could be curiousity...scared to be curious?
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Posted Dec 22nd, 2008 at 8:18PM
did you have a bad experience with a man with another color? if not i dont know. but, they are not any different then white men!
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Are you white? Because white people have the most to be afraid of cuz everyone else is jealous they can't have naturally blonde hair.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
because you are racist.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
There could be many possible reasons for this. You could have learned it from your parents, or from negative experiences in your own life.
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
Or it could be a bad memory surfacing from a "previous life" (if the other answers above don't fit).

Today we are at a point in world history where all these hidden problems from past lives / in our unconscious, are coming up to the surface, as they have to be resolved. We are at the end of a major cycle of time in our creation; a new cycle is preparing to start, and all the mess of the previous one has to be cleaned up or discharged by experiencing it.
Hopefully that makes sense to you!
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
is it just simply because.. news, tv's, movies and even papers are telling/showing things about other races that made u uncomfortable with.... and before u knew it u are starting to become a racist?
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Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM
I totally get that same way i have no idea why but it like freaks me out like i have to approach him or else i get freaked out like idk i have these visions in my mind of the future if i talk to him like if they influenced it or something i have no idea but i can say i feel exactly the same way.
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