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Why am i attracted to older men?

I really like older men..im only 16 and i swear to god i cant help it. My 3 favourite men in the world are old

1Liam Neeson
2Johnny Depp
3Gordon Ramsey

why am i like this? am i wrong? i have these fantasies in my head of me having sex with them..whats wrong wit me??
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Posted Oct 2nd, 2009 at 4:15PM
It is quite common for women to be attracted to older men. There is a substancial library of psychology on the why (which being psychology, could be bang on or complete crap :)) Whatever the reason, be wary of a much older man who is interested in you. It may seem perfectly natural from your point of view but his interest is most likely going to be strictly sexual. A 16 year old and a forty year old have almost nothing in common and to any reasonably well adjucted man who is MUCH older than you, you will seem very immature. This is not a criticism of you, it is just a fact of life. There is nothing at all wrong with you finding these men attractive but you should be wary of actually getting involved with a man who is so much older than you.
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Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 4:19AM
the same reason why i am attracted to guys my own age
to each is own
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Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 4:19AM
age doesn't mean a thing, it's just looks, but you'll soon reach an age where you wonder if the wrinkles make them look distinguished or just old
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Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 4:49AM
Aw, what's wrong with you? You're a human teenager. No one really knows what causes someone to be attracted to the people that they're attracted to, it's a mystery. It's horomones. I dunno! (I know I know, I could get into the whole evolutionary thing but that's more boring than "it's a mystery") Don't feel guilty about it. Do what every other normal teen does, fantasize about it, and move on!
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Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 4:36AM
It's Ok, darl. I am too, always have been, just wait a few years before the sex.
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Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 4:16AM
Maybe your displacing your feelings for your dad? i dunno im just suggesting here....
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Posted Oct 1st, 2009 at 4:15AM
I was attracted to older men, I`m 19 now but I was attracted to a 76 years old man but now I know that I never loved him more than a loving father that understood me more than myself.
I used to run from my home and school to sit on his lap if my parent`s yelled at me, I even wrote him love letters .
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