Why am i not turned on by my boyfriend?

I think he is best as a friend, although he is great boyfriend material if your not turned on by him, you don't like him the boyfriend way but the friendship like.

He's just not your type physically.......

You have to make a personal decision as to whether that is important to you, or you can manage without being physically drawn to him.

...don't worry you have time to decide, it's only been 3 months. :-)

think about what turns you on. Then see if there is a way you could hint at him to get him to do that. Specifically I am thinking, if a guy is too nice and gentle and you prefer someone tough and forceful to be turned on, you should try to see if you can get him to role-play that in bed before deciding you can't stay with him. If it is the way he looks, try suggesting clothes or haircuts, say, "that would look really good on you!" Other people may say, "you can't change someone" but if that were true the field of psychology would be non-existent. I think, you must accept him as he is, while attempting to strike a compromise on what you both want from each other sexually.

Either of "Two Reasons":
1. You Are TOO DEMANDING; unable to "accept" Love FOR WHAT IT IS; or
2. "Maybe" HE is 'NOT' your Soulmate ???