Why am i so unpopular? and why do i feel so insecure? how do i not feel so incredibly insecure? help me.
5 Answers to "Why am i so unpopular? and why do i feel so insecure? how do i not feel so incredibly insecure? help me."
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i know the feelings you speak of, and deal with them myself, amongst many other issues. clinical depression, panic attacks, and fibromyalgia that causes extreme physical pain.
and i don't think much of myself at times. i don't think i'm attractive, i don't understand why anyone would every want to be in a relationship with me, even though it's the thing i want the most in life. a lof of the time i feel very negatively about myself. i can definitely understand where you are coming from and i truly am sorry you are feeling this way. i know what it's like and i hate seeing other people go through similar pain.
if you ever want to talk i'm around a lot. please try to take care of yourself, be well...
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thank you for the +1 to my answer. i genuinely hope that you wind up feeling better about yourself. you're so young and have so much time and life ahead of you. if my own insecurities and negative feelings toward myself have given me, it's empathy. i can empathize and understand the kind of pain you feel. i felt the same way at your age. it's part of why i'm so anti-bullying. i don't think anyone should have to feel that way, especially someone so young and with their lives so much ahead of them. i truly hope you feel better and are doing well. please take care of yourself, be well... benjamin
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Because sadly being your age is supposed to be fun, but it's not. It sucks, you just have to wait it out and not get down on yourself. Don't worry about being popular either, it's pointless.
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thanks you guys it means alot! :-)
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Because you allow others to see that you care to much. Either stop caring or find a way not to show it.
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i don't think that stopping caring is really the right way to go about things. we live in a world where far far too many people just don't care enough. unfortunately caring can lead to pain and suffering, when you become emotionally invested. and as someone who knows more about pain than anyone really should, i can say i'd rather care and feel some hurt than be calloused, jaded, and no care at all. take care, be well... benjamin
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bth People can feel desperation. It pushes them away.
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Because your young.... the path you choose can be difficult ... the life you lead is your destiny...
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by Beksinski Aug 7th, 2012 at 5:13AM
You haven't had the chance to realize how amazing you are. Just wait until you find your niche in the world :). Try working hard at trusting yourself and believing in yourself, no matter what others say. In high school the insecure kids are more likely to get picked on, it doesn't say anything about who you are.
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