Is it possible to turn gay? I thought you either were or you weren't?<br />
I think you may be bisexual.
you are most likely getting tired of the same ol sex over and over with a man , You need to enjoy something diffrent , A lot of people are going to bisexual fun and thay get to enjoy hot steamey sex from both sides, It is very hot and exciting to go bisexual , Try it you will enjoy it . If a woman turns u on go for it hon , and ENJOY the new hot sex of being bisexual
A lot of married men seem to develop increasingly strong sexual feelings for other men in middle age too.
If you want a stable, steady life, no conflicts, no hassles, then keep your status quo as is and don't do anything to shake things up. If you want the life you have but also want women, you could have affairs with women and be careful enough not to get caught. If you want an honest life as a gay or bisexual woman, you are going to have to have a talk with your husband and tell him the truth. Maybe his reaction could tell you how best to cope.
I was always gay and knew it when I got married. Felt too pressured to do anything but and probably to scared to come out. In my 50's I am now having sex with men and loving it.
You may want to talk to a professional. It helped me in my case.
No one is ever completely hetero or gay, it's by degree's. In your case, who knows. Were you ever excited mentally in the locker room seeing other naked guys? Fantasize about them? I sure did.
Cope? Again, I'd see a professional especially if you are married.
Its called excitement .. Not for everyone but fun