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Why am I unable to detect myself being mean sometimes?

I don't think I'm being mean and nasty but others can see it when I don't catch myself

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    TwattyMcCocknoodles - 22-25 years old

    Posted by TwattyMcCocknoodles Mar 10th, 2013 at 8:46PM

    you're just misunderstood

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6 Answers to "Why am I unable to detect myself being mean sometimes?"

  1. fakeola - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by fakeola Mar 10th, 2013 at 8:59PM

    Judging oneself is always difficult. Its much easier to be on the outside looking in.

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  2. Oddandsingular - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Oddandsingular Mar 10th, 2013 at 8:51PM

    At least you are willing to ask and think about it. I think that means you are not narcissistic. If you keep listening to people and thinking about it you'll probably start catching yourself before the words leave your lips. It's just you becoming more self aware.

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  3. Fidge3 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Fidge3 Mar 10th, 2013 at 8:49PM

    because you're impulsive- i say this because usually the people i know who are "mean" are also impulsive, but once you know that you are - you just have to practice being less impulsive, by just watching out for it.

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  4. BeenSmiling - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by BeenSmiling Mar 10th, 2013 at 8:46PM

    After they've pointed it to you, can you see it?

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  5. farfrominnocent - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by farfrominnocent Mar 10th, 2013 at 8:55PM

    most of the time yes sometimes no

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  6. BeenSmiling - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by BeenSmiling Mar 10th, 2013 at 8:58PM

    When you manage to notice it, ask yourself what had lead you to do that evil. Think about what was the situation, what did you think at that time and if you do it in other similar situations. Sometimes it's preventable.

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  7. rainbowdasher - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by rainbowdasher Mar 10th, 2013 at 8:46PM

    I'm the same way

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