Anal, the final frontier. These are the voyages of the Manship Enterprise. His mission: to explore strange new worlds, to seek out new experiences and new sensations, to boldly go where no man has gone before.
tighter hole theory
interest in a woman kinky enough to allow it
Its more rare, and therefore more valuable
because were filthy animals.
Guys who are obsessed with anal sex are so because one of two reasons.
#1) The guy has a very small penis and that’s the only way he can feel her.
#2) He is a closet homosexual and in a doggie style position, he can pretend his girlfriend or wife is another guy.
I don't think I'm obsessed, but I do want to try everything with my lover. It's about destroying the boundaries between us as a physical corollary for spiritual "oneness"...
That's not the full explanation of course, but it's better than anything else I can think of. There's also the dominance thing, the nastiness (shame is a spice) etc., but all of that is secondary.
Somehow the more "taboo" the act, and (sometimes) the more resistance there is to performing it, the greater the level of trust and intimacy involved. That's a huge turn-on.
Of course, it's also important to respect people's limits and do everything possible to preserve their sense of self. Everyone has things they'll never enjoy and don't want to do.
I guess I've been lucky since it's never become an issue in any of my relationships. I'm always up for it of course ;)
I've introduced a few women to the experience with about a 50/50 loved it/hated it track record. The failures were all early on, when I was impulsive and unable to master myself enough to curb my impatience and focus on making it enjoyable for the woman.
In none of my relationships has it usurped or even challenged vaginal sex as a preferred activity. Once it's done, it's been done, and since I'm a considerate lover, unless it's something the woman asks for or it suits the mood of the moment, I'm not particularly interested.
A few women seemed to get off on it bigtime, so I obliged, but for most women it leads to discomfort after or during the act, and so... *shrug*
Because it feels so damn good!
Then I'm in the 5% group who isn't. I tried it once, at the request of my wife, but I didn't care for it all that much and she found it painful.
Personally, it made me feel more like a plumber and less like a lover.
I have no desire to visit the poop-chamber. Is it 95%? Probably not, but ****'s depiction of sodomy as normal for straights has made it a lot more popular with the younger males than with previous generations. I doubt it's a make-or-break issue for many of them.
For some of them it's probably a status symbol : "I got her to let me do anal." "Really?" "Yea, heh, heh, she's really into me!" The fact that single gals give so much more ******** than they used to has made ******** less of a status symbol than it was.
I have never, ever met another woman who enjoys anal sex. And why would we? Immediately adjacent to our anus is a hole that is filled with more pleasure receptors than any other part of our body. That hole is designed for penetration. The other one is a waste outlet with a tight closure on it.
So you enjoy 'tight'? Go get a hosepipe.
We can be expected to enjoy it as an alternative to vaginal sex in the same way that a guy might prefer to have his big toe stroked instead of his penis. If I were to enjoy 'big' (and we care about that far less than you think) would it excuse me ignoring all your needs in the bedroom and decide it was satisfying enough for you to watch me with a cucumber? The obsession with anal sex is the product of a revolting, male-oriented **** industry and the question raised by this post proves it. Guys, join the real world, which is NOT populated by bottle-blonde women called Trixie Deepthroat. Anal penetration is an act of sexual selfishness and disrespect.
I am a sexually liberated woman with many, many girl friends and I speak from experience. In fact, in my opinion,, any "woman" on this site who claims to enjoy anal sex is a man pretending to be a woman. It's high time that real women stood up and redressed reality instead of letting men delude themselves into thinking we enjoy being defiled. This is a step back behind the dark ages.
It's reality, guys. Wake up and smell the truth.
Let me go one step further. Since we both have an anus, any guy who wants to penetrate mine as a part of lovemaking has to sit with a fat carrot up his while I cook him dinner afterwards. Deal?
Actually my ex wife loved anal. She started leaving a jar of Vaseline next to the bed. When I eventually reached for *** she responded with "took you long enough to get the hint." the second time we did anal I popped the head in and she immediately trusted back and took all of me at once. We did anal a few times a month, always after many ******* for her first.
temperture and friction is all that matters to me. As long as I ********* I'm not too picky...as long as my partner's female.
If you really want to know! Upon penitration and the head being in the anus, the spinchter is still tight around the shaft of the penis! This pulls the skin of the penis back towards the scrotum! The pulling of the penis skin back makes the head of the penis swell, causing intense pleasure! This can also be done during ************! If you need to see a picture go to my picture album (teri's day out)! The difference between ************ and anal is the body heat and the intensity of doing something so tabboo! Once a man experiences this kind of pleasure, it is something he will chase forever! For those who say only gay me do that! That is simpley not the case! It is only gay for a man if he's on the bottom! Speaking of being on the bottom, once you adjust to it, it is awsome there too! Yes, I have done that too!
I think it starts out as a dominance thing. Having her submit to something taboo because you 'made' her sort of thing.
I know someone who likes to do anal, but he's only done it to girls when he's done with them. Its like the last hurrah 'take that' sort of thing. I think its a prickish move personally.
I'm in the 5% myself, I don't want to be in the pooper. My ex asked once so I obliged, but I couldn't keep at it. I lost interest pretty quickly.
A little anal play can be fun (fingers etc) and arrousing for both, but that's as far as it goes for me.
Have done it a few times. 2x with a woman who just wanted to try it. 1x with a woman that loved anal and wanted a DP. I have spoken to several women who love it. One woman, who had a few kids, said she would only have anal with her husband since after childbirth, her vagina was too loose. Then again to each his/her own. As for being gross, A clean rectum (enema, etc.) is pretty clean. That being said, never go from anal to vaginal unless you clean in between.
Don't know why but not sure if it's that high a %. Will admit to interest in it and I have done it many times but usually prefer vaginal intercourse and would choose it first. Can't say I have ever told anyone else that I like and have done it. Private between me and my partner but she enjoys it as well and asks for it sometimes. Each to their own really.
its tighter, but its not 95% of guys, it just seems that way, more likely than not because there is almost no chance of pregnancy that way which is an added bonus (no offense), but also because it feels different on the penis than the vaginal walls, theres more friction even with a lot of lube and such so it makes it more satisfying for the guy, and sometimes the girl
a 5%er here....defo not obsessed. im a dirty minded lil ****** at times, and have done it in the past, but ive never suggested or hinted for it with new partners. ***** lover all the way,lol, much nicer to eat. lol ;)
Strangely enough I never thought of it as something I would like to do, but it really does seem like every other guy wants to. I think that is because people who want to, mention it, and those who don't simply don't mention it.
This is going to sound very crude, but I think it's factual.
Anal sex is pleasurable because it tends to be tighter.
Hate the message, not the messager!
Oh, God. My husband is like that. I've already told him hundreds of times that it's exit only, but he still won't quit. I don't know why, all I know is it's gross.
I've never seen a girl *** with pleasure like she has from anal.