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Why are all the women I ask out either seeing someone already or have an excuse not to go out with me?

Don't even think about it guys, I work out regularly, have good hygiene, isn't "hideous" looking, and I make a fair deal of money. All my life its been the same thing except once in which she cheated on me. I just can't understand why. Its been two years and I know Im ready and I can't stand being so lonely anymore. Im so depressed Im near the point of suicide now. Please I need help.

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As a dyke who sometimes has the same problem, I can tell you that you have to ask a *lot* of women out before you get one that says yes. And I'm good-looking too.

You might ask 100 before you get 1 date. And it might not even be a great one! So, ask another 100...

But here's the thing-- you have to ask, each time, as if it were the first time you've ever thought of it-- not as if you've been turned down dozens of times already.

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SeriouslySappy	Posted Aug 29th, 2009 at 9:12AM If you come off as too needy you might be scaring them off. Chill out a bit. Rated: +3Vote for this!
CrossEyedMary	Posted Aug 29th, 2009 at 11:31AM I don't know. Rated: +2Vote for this!
AmazingKai	Posted Aug 29th, 2009 at 9:13AM Well, if it isn't physical it's mental. You don't seem like the type of guy who is very strong and can edure the darkness and solitude of being single... I'm assuming that that is unattractive to females. Fix yourself and you'll get someone who loves you, because there must be a problem with you. Try looking for women in different far off places too, if it's just the gas station, movie rental, or supermarket you look for a date... well... and try to get to be friends with the girl first. Best friends. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Lora4075	Posted Aug 28th, 2009 at 10:42PM maybe you intimidate them? just a guess..... Rated: +1Vote for this!
krissyluv	Posted Aug 28th, 2009 at 10:54PM get too kno them alot...lyke personally and talk to them about there problems so that they will kno that you care about them....idk lol just try too be nice and everything...maybe you arnt asking the right girls? im sure you will find someone.. :) Rated: +1Vote for this!
duchess453	Posted Aug 28th, 2009 at 11:54PM It's not your problem. I'm 18 and have never dated. Sure I had my crushes but, they didn't see me the same way. Sometimes, it's a matter of waiting. The right person is supposed to be out there...that's what they say. I know sometimes I too want to throw in the towel and forget it, go on and be a hard-core feminist or something useful. But, I think that's what makes it that much better when we find the one. Waiting isn't always torture. Rated: +1Vote for this!
miles2gob4isleep	Posted Aug 29th, 2009 at 3:33AM Maybe they are seeing someone. Many times those who seem unavailable are very attractive to others. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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