It takes away part of your soul, then it leaves thefaithful partner to go through something I wouldn't even wish on an enemy .
because there are actual feeling involved instead of just physical attraction.
They can be if the married person falls in love and wants to leave their marriage as a result. A physical affair is really no better, but possibly if it's only s3xual and the married person still loves his/her spouse, they might be able to work things out.
cause the other person thinks theyre not emotional
Because there is no physical connection there. When two people share intimate feelings when they are not married to them, then this elicits an emotional response. These responses ought to be shared with your spouse, not someone out of your marriage. Trust me I know!