people make different choices of personal ex
Quality time, loving words, gifts, acts of service, and physical touch are all different ways to show love, try to find out which ones come naturally from your boyfriend cherish those and coach him in what ways you find fulfilling. Somewhere in between your style and his style you will find happiness :-)
hardly awesome, just had to face these problems and work through it myself :-)
Because most of them are stupid as hell. EW.
Because communication is the ability to put ideas into the head of another person. If you can't, >>>YOU<<< as the communicator have failed. Play to your audience and use methods which will get your intended point across.
No... I'd say everyone can get it if you tailor your message. If you say you need to spell it out, then do exactly that. If you can be sure your point has gone across and nothing happens, then it's a failure of action on their part and you can safely assume they don't give a **** about you.
Speaking as a guy, I'm not dense. And I'm truly sorry you're dating a guy who is.
Not all guys are dense though. You just have the unfortunate luck of being with one who is.
Speaking as a man who loves doing the things you mentioned here, I'm guessing some guys have difficulty expressing themselves. In your case, I wouldn't take It personally. I'm sure your boyfriend loves you. If he didn't, he wouldn't be with you. Sit him down & have a talk with him. Let him know how you feel. I think having a conversation with him is a very healthy option. If he's willing to talk with you, he's a keeper. If he's not willing to talk with you, sadly, you might have to rethink your entire relationship with him.
It's ok, sweetheart. I'm glad he's being more sweet to you now. I hope you guys have a long lasting, tremendously fruitful & forever beautiful relationship. :-)