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Why are many more gay guys hitting on me but much fewer girls do the same? I'm 26/m?

I live in a fairly easy-going, somewhat liberal big city, population several million people. Very, very many gay guys flirt with me, offer me sex, look at me, etc. Much, much fewer women do. I want to channel this gay-magnet vibe into a woman-magnet vibe!! EP'ers... Tell me what you think!

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I think your problem is your waiting for people to hit on you and such. Women like to feel attractive by you chasing them. So be more proactive!

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21stCenturySchizo idMan	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 12:30AM Try not dressing up in a pink cop uniform and saying things to guys like "I'll arrest you SILLY!" Rated: +5Vote for this!
TM2PLA	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 12:30AM Yeah, I agree with denver, women don't usually hit on guys even if they are attracted. They give subtle hints like, feeling their hair when talking to you, or other subtle things I don't know about. I think they look at you when you're not looking but not sure about that one either. Liquor is the best truth serum I've found... Rated: +4Vote for this!
jp5040	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 12:31AM no - it's that you're cute as hell I bet. - also the guys I know watch your eyes. if you are watching men go by then they will think you're gay, it's the only gaydar I know that works. - are you? watching? maybe curious? - maybe not. But I bet you're still cute as hell. Rated: +3Vote for this!
Scoobs57	Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 8:32PM ~highly inappropriate answer deleted by Scooby~ Rated: +2Vote for this!
WhoTheHellAreYou	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 12:31AM What the- Are you... ME? OK this is... disturbing. Rated: +2Vote for this!
alicia87	Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 8:24PM Denverguy hit the nail on the head. Rated: +1Vote for this!
StWayne	Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 8:37PM Wear a wedding ring! Wearing a wedding ring will signal to the gays that you play the straight side of the field. However, a wedding ring is a signal to many women that you have yet to be properly "cougarized." Rated: +1Vote for this!
LizardKing	Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 8:42PM Well thats how it works unfortunately, girls are usually a lot shyer when it comes to approaching someone they are attracted to. Guys (straight and gay) are a little more forward. Rated: +1Vote for this!
shf84	Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 8:52PM It could be that the girls are carrying around some baggage because of destructive gender roles they were taught. It's a sickness in our society that women often don't approach men even if they want to you might have to be more forward with them or look for subtitle signs they are attracted to you. In the mean time (especially seeing you have been hurt by this evil) you might want to get involved with NOW and other feminist groups and lend a hand in combating it. I have no doubt that if we work together we can overcome this wrong. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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