Why is he the difficult one to figure out...? You are the one that sent mixed messages to HIM!
So, here's an idea-- don't send a signal-- TALK DIRECTLY TO HIM.
Nonsense. You are in a WIN/WIN scenario right now, and don't even know it.
1. Is he in your life the way you want right now? No.
2. If you do nothing, will he be..? No.
3. If you do something, and he blows you off...? No, but you can stop wasting your time and energy on it, unless you want to keep the fantasy for those quiet moments alone.
4. If you do something, and he takes you up on it...? YES.
So, doing nothing=failure. Doing something=success.
Whether you date the man or not, you can eat there.
You hurt his ego.
oh my god... why can't you approach him?
Men also play hard to get. Women just don't think they do. Men play hard to get. Because, they want to feel important to that woman. They like their ego stroked.
You're thinking way too far into it. When I want something, I go after it. If someone comes up to me after the fact, and I'm in conversation with someone, then I'm not interested. Timing is everything. Don't show your affection for a guy when he's talking to his friends about football, or fishing, or whatever he's into. We don't want to here it at that point. When dinner's on the table, get it while it's hot.
If you want him, don't beat around the bush, get the point across like you mean it. There's nothing worse than a wishy, washy... anybody.
we're really not that complicated xD he probably thinks your messing with him now
Near me Hun it's the game be careful .. Don't play x
boys are babies...
He prob got his ego hurt when you didnt accept his advances the first time around, now he is not interested --play hard to get or disinterested and he might come around on his terms.