men (because of other men and the stereotype) have a natural instinct to be a "man" out of fear that others will look at them as not a "man". yes, I find it sad and luckily i found one who does not care (which is rare. if men would only realize that most feel the same way, and it is ok to feel, maybe they would change.
I will, just ask me.
It's all the nagging. From mother through girlfriends to wives, the constant prying and yanking engenders this behavior.
not secretive,its called getting your shite together.....
Most men compartmentalize things, which means when he is with you, he doesn't think about the bad stuff.
Depend on how secure they feel to you. I don't experience it.
Men like to keep their dignity.
very insightful for a young one.......took me years to crack that code...........i don't why they do it........& they probably don't know why either
Don't try to understand him. Just love him.<br />
(the same goes for the opposite gender)
the sweet part is thinking themselves secretive! <br /><br />
:) it is the part i most enjoy
because they are men are most are raised to deal with things on their own, telling you what is going on with them involves you directly. which is why they remain a bit secretive. on the flip side being mysterious could mean they have something to hide, you be the judge.
When it comes to men they going to show very very few people what they do I there love live or other things they do. “Men do this because they what to ported them self and the other person it the relationship” said by Edward mealoy. The teen love life is crazy. Teens make this bigger then what they are. For an example: I had was talking to my exboyfriends and he was dating someone and I was talking about the good times when we where dating and his girlfriend asked me why I was hanging out with him and she told everyone that he was dating me and her at the some time. Guy think it is the bested for both of you. I not dating someone right now but if I was I think I like to know that too.