They fear their own bi or gay (or both) curiousity, they lack empathy, they are limited in their understanding of human sexuality. I think they fail to respect the most tender and personal aspect of an individuals humanity. They are ignorant and perhaps this is because no one that they love and care about has ever come out publicly as gay or bi. I find the ones that scream the loudest and call out the nastiest protests are often in denial about their own feelings toward someone of the same sex either presently or in their past.<br />
I hope that there will come a time when no one has to label themselves as anything, (it isn't really anyone's business who anyone else sleeps with or who one loves anyway, straight people don't go around pronouncing themselves straight do they? No meetings are called to talk about their straightness with Mom, Dad, and the paperboy, it's all pretty absurd if you ask me) Why cant't it be that if someone is dating a person of their same gender that's just how it is, no one questions, remarks or even second glances. Sometimes people act like such puritans, they should grow up.
Very well said!
Obviously 'cause they are jealous of how cool they are... (:
Ikr?! Like why hate on perfection?
FreakDash it's true 'cause everyone's perfect
Words of wisdom.
Haters gonna hate, potaters gonna potate. But people are perfect. So everyone should shut up about how horrible they are
That is a great piece of writing.
Lol I'm really slow so I honestly can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not aha
Most learn to have prejudice and haven't expanded their brains beyond that.
Because they are ignorant ******** who have nothing better to do with their lives than fret over what consenting adults do in their bedroom.
Ignorance and bigotry. What has a person's sexuality got to do with anyone but them and their partner?
I'm not against gays... bi's are kinda just in it for the sex??? idk and idc.
Definitely not lol.
I love my gay friends, but I think a lot of them try too hard out of the gate...like they have to prove some point. They get negative attention because they're acting rowdy in public. I've told a couple of them to tone it down and people won't give them those looks. Gay, straight, boy, girl, young or old, you can't act crazy without getting negative attention.
Outside of being taught to feel like it is wrong...and let's face it, if you are American, each of us were taught NOT to aspire to be either bi or gay. Personally, my parents were always pro-choice, but you still knew it was 'undesirable'. Other than that, I think maybe the PRIMARY reason is insecurity.<br />
Most people have had bi or gay feelings, at some point in their lives, but would DIE if anyone so much as suspected it. For those people, being around bi's or gay's or even discussing it is intimidating.
At the basic level I believe straight people are against it because when we think of sleeping with the same sex it makes us go ewww and turns our stomach. We see the sexes made to fit together to procreate. Using the butt is the only alternative gays have to have intercourse. Lesbians don't even have a physical alternative. (fingers but they are not long enough) They have to use a device. Going with the flow of nature seems normal. And if everyone was gay then the species would cease to continue. It is only artificial insemination or egg donors and surrogate that makes it possible for them to have children. And still male ***** and female egg has to come together to have fertilization and thus a child. It seems gay and lesbian is on the rise. Is that because the world is overpopulated and that is the natural phenomena to stop the increase in population? Is it a fail safe built in device in our instincts to curb overbreeding? Just a thought.
Interesting and insightful. Your right about the grossout factor as well.
I had not considered the grossing factor really, interesting.
Yes. It doesn't matter how I feel about it. People should have a choice all over the world. I wish everyone peace.
People are mostly straight and expect others to be too :))
they feel uncomfortable when it is promoted and it gets an official status.
It is simple. If, more and more people turn into gay and lisbian, the straight people would soon be out numbered, as it would be more open. This fear, makes the straight stop ,as in asia , we have males who got their penis severed and turned themselves into "gay" locally "hijra" then they have formed a cult. What they do is kidnap young boys and cut it off ! and turn them into a hijra, thus making their cult stronger.
it is leading to harm.They are trying to make normal boys like themselves.Which is dangerous for a healthy society.
It is my answer.ofcourse. you got your's :)
Some people find it hard to come to terms with it , just jog on and let them have their own opinion